Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying.
Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking:

1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?

2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?

3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?

4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?

5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?

6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?

7) Will there be a television in the bedroom?

8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?

9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education

10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends?

11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?

12) What does my family do that annoys you?

13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?

14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?

15) Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?

there you go,

1）我们是否讨论了是否要孩子，如果答案是肯定的，谁将会是主要的照顾者？

2）我们有一个彼此的财政义务和目标明确的概念，并做支出和储蓄网我们的想法？

3）我们有没有讨论过如何维持家庭将我们的期望，并在对谁负责管理的琐事协议吗？

4）我们有充分披露我们的健康史，包括身体和精神？

5）是我的搭档深情的程度，我期望呢？

6）我们能否在舒适性和公开讨论我们的需求，偏好及恐惧？

7）将有一台电视在卧室里？

8）我们是否真正倾听对方，公平考虑彼此的想法和抱怨吗？

9）我们是否达到了对方的精神信仰，需要清楚的认识，我们讨论了我们的孩子何时以及如何将接受宗教/道德教育

10）我们是否喜欢和尊重对方的朋友吗？

11）我们重视和尊重对方的父母，是我们双方都关心的父母是否会妨碍我们的 关系？

12）什么是我的家人为此苦恼吗？

13）是否有一些事情，你和我不准备放弃在婚姻吗？

14，如果我们其中一人）是用提供远离对方的家庭在一个位置的职业机会，我们准备搬家？

15）是否我们每个人都充分感受到了对方的承诺，婚姻有信心，并认为债券可以生存，我们可能面临的任何挑战？

你是对的

   

LS  和头像MM讨论过没     

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引用第3楼once于2011-06-08 17:06发表的  :
LS  和头像MM讨论过没     

明显枫姐姐都块结婚的了

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引用第3楼once于2011-06-08 17:06发表的  :
LS  和头像MM讨论过没     

刚带回家见过父母

没明白老外为什么对在bedroom里的television这么在意

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引用第6楼震月于2011-06-08 18:33发表的  :
没明白老外为什么对在bedroom里的television这么在意

老外比较有情调，都是边看边做